BLAME GAME

The Pity Party! Poor Me, Its Not my Fault, Nobody likes me! I am sure everyone knows at least one persons either within the family or the clingy friend! I find this hard to understand. Oh , I had such a hard life feel bad for me . For the most part, difficult thing have happen to everyone. Should we all be walking around put the blame on someone else? Why are some people always looking for sympathy ??

Here is my thoughts, grow up and quit feeling sorry for yourself. There is no need to put the blame on someone. Your choices ,,your life ,your own dam fault. It is not your parent fault when you can not hold a job, or your marriage is failing! This would be all on that person who made the choices.

You choice the path you want to go down in life. your parents teach you right from wrong and hopefully instill good morals. By the time a child is in their early teens, the choices they make should become their own. We are taught that drugs are not healthy for our bodies that they can do harm to us in many way! So, your out hanging with friends and decide to smoke a little weed your having fun, right here!!! your choice ! Not mommies or daddies, the choice of killing your brains was your very own!

This is not OH,POOR ME my parent made me mad, It is all their fault, I smoked weed. Here is another one , no would pay attention to me so, I will do bad thing! Don't get me wrong on this one, I know there are many addicts in the world that really are in need of help!!!! If anyone has watched the show INTERVENTIONS , these people truly need help .I have seen this show many time but yet, to hear a addict take personal responsibility for them self and the choice that the y made to put them in that situation.

Everyone explains why they would like them to stop using , but I have yet to here the addict themselves say I have made a Bad CHOICE ! What age is the appropriated age to take responsibility for your own emotional health ?

I have encounter many people in my profession that have overdosed, either accidently or intentional.

When talking to them the answer is never, that they made a BAD CHOICE! For the most part it is blame on how horrible their life, that’s only thing that give them a good feeling inside. It is all about someone else never because the were acting a ASS.

Were they never taught consequences, I was a 15 year old mother! MY CHOICE! I was raised in CRAZY FAMILY !!this was my choice, to walk away because I did not want that life. My choice to walk away from people that would do stupid thing. I could of stay, done party and put the blame on the world and who ever cross my pass. My choice to be HAPPY,MY CHOICE TO BETTER MYSELF, MY CHOICE TO BE WHO I AM!

My whole point is , people who don't except the choice they have made for them self in life. Putting the blame on someone or something will never make you feel better about yourself!

BESIDE THAT WHO WANTS TO BE INVITED TO THAT MANY PITY PARTIES! If you dwell solely on the past you never move forward!!!

Here is a little that sticks with me " it takes the same amount of effort to be Happy as it does to be SAD" its your choice